I am a twentieth century woman on a path of discovery!  I am searching for self awareness and enrichment of my life to reach my purpose. I am a Mother, Wife, Daughter, Sister, Teacher and Friend.  I am a “Grateful Goddess” who is on a journey of discovery and enlightenment, but I am not alone on this ever-evolving journey.  I have been lucky to have been joined by like-minded women  all of us synergistically sharing a spiritual purpose of realizing our potential.  Each of us have a “Grateful Goddess” within that should be nurtured and listened to and shared.  I have  been touched, encouraged and at times pleasantly surprised at the growth and interest of this grassroots endeavor.  Please feel free to join us at a future meeting of GG or participate in our blog conversations.

GG Karen

Are you a mother, sister, daughter, wife or girlfriend? If you answered yes to one or more of these, then you may find yourself often giving/helping/doing for others. While it is great to give to others, when do you find time to nurture and give to yourself?

Join us, for this month’s Goddess gathering where you will learn how to see, speak and lead with your heart. Your heart holds great compassion not only for others but for yourself.  You will learn how to access your heart and the great wisdom it has to offer. Heart with Hart Goddess Gathering will be lead by Life Coach and Energy Medicine Practitioner,  Jackie Hart.  She is a certified Integral Coach trained by New Ventures West and is certified through the International Coaching Federation. In addition,  she has  studied Advanced Energy Healing with Victoria Merkle , Ph.D and Gordon Merkle LAc. She is certified as an Energy Healing Practitioner and is also a graduate of their Energy Medicine Research Program.

Restorative Yoga instructor, Michelle DeWoskin will also be on hand to guide us through a gentle flow of breath and discovery. Michelle is a classically trained dancer who was introduced to yoga in 1987 as a way to improve her physical technique and found that she loved the possibility for growth and healing within yoga. Her classes focus on strengthening weaknesses, discovering individual freedom and providing a balance of challenge and surrender.

Door prizes, wine, and desserts will as always be part of the evening.  Cost of the event is $20 with part of the proceeds to be donated towards the American Heart Association. So come out, be true to yourself, and open your heart- expect good things to come!

We started the evening with a Goddess journal activity. What do you want in your life? Sometimes this is hard to know. We do however know what we don’t want. Those are easy! I don’t want to be overweight, I don’t want to be tired, I don’t want to be in debt!” We spend a short time writing down our don’t wants, then transferred them to do wants. For example, I want to feel healthy, I want to feel energy I want to feel financially free and in control. We then ripped out the don’t want page and threw it away. The want page is now a part of your Goddess journal to look to , add to and remind yourself of how you want to feel in your life. To live a financially free in control life, we had David Perry’s excellent advice, ideas and humor to help guide us on our journey.

Thank you David Perry for such an informative, enlightening, entertaining evening. To summarize the evening, David covered two out of the three biggest causes of conflict in marriages and relationships: family and money (sex is the third).  Seldom is only one party in a relationship the problem. Each member spends money in his or her own way and preference. What is necessity? What is a luxury? You don’t need friends to help you spend. If you are planning an evening out with friends and they choose the expensive restaurant, its okay to say no lets go somewhere else. Make good choices.  What was so interesting about the evening was David’s comments concerning how alike spending behaviors are to other disorders like eating, alcohol, drugs etc that are difficult to abstain from . “You cannot go through life without spending, unless this is Grateful Heiresses, not Grateful Goddesses!”  David made many great recommendations including if you are on a budget, you stay out of malls, stores and other places that would cause you to spend.  Decide what are your necessities, restructure your life and don’t care about what others think.

We all shared our splurges and asked how to handle them. One of my splurges is on my daily latte. I shared with the group that even that small change can be a big one in the long run. Although I have not cut that out, I have cut down. David suggested its okay to allow for small splurges now and then but if you feel you cannot pay with cash for something, and you are using a credit card, do not buy it.

David’s suggestions and ideas were so informative and helpful to all. How has your spending habits changed after this gathering? One Goddess shared with me that she now walks home from work a different route so she doesn’t pass by her favorite store anymore where she would often walk into. What are your splurges? Have your switched your routines so you are saving and leading a more truthful spending life?

Thank you again David Perry. If you have any questions regarding this evening, please post your comment and David will respond.

Thank you again Jessica Goldman and the All About Dance staff for hosting the evening. Thank you Goddesses for your enthusiasm and interest in the evening.


It’s a New Year and time for a fresh start. Goddesses come learn practical useful tips to keep your finances in order. We welcome David Perry.

David Perry is a partner in Friedman & Huey CPA’s.  Dave has his Masters in Taxation, holds the Personal Financial Specialist designation from the American Institute of Certified Public Accountants and, curiously enough, has a BA in Psychology.  Dave has both taught and written courses on personal financial planning and is a former member of the Illinois CPA Society Personal Financial Planning committee. However, the best of his practical advice often comes from his own experiences at the School of Hard Knocks:  His own mother was widowed very young (43) and very much unprepared.

Dave’s approach to this important subject is delivered with levity, insight, compassion, common sense, sometimes a little dose of sarcasm but always with honesty.
We will toast off 2010 with some champagne and cheer, then get down to business! Cost of this event is $25, ($5 of which will go to Deborah’s Place an organization to help women get a fresh start in their lives). Bring along any other women you think would be interested. Don’t forget your Goddess Journal (there will be more on hand at event)

 

Raindrops on Roses and Wiskers on Kittens..These are a few of my favorite things!!

Thank you all for sharing your favorite things. Please add to this list in the comments section.



Michael Jackson 1 CD

covergirl Lash Exact

Kyle & Deena baby blanket

Band Aid Friction Block Stick

Lobe Wonder from Claire’s

Yumi Tumi top from Niemans

Bikram Yoga Chicago http://www.bycic.com/

Tights

Green Tea Goji Berry Pomegranate

Milk Bath  Gel

Best  Cook Book

Retin A


We started the night by setting our intention for the night and by taking that moment to reflect on our favorite things. We talked more about how the favorite made us feel and how to capture that feeling in our daily lives. Using our gratitude journals, we recorded these feelings. At the end of the evening, we raffled off the items so all could share a new favorite.

Maggie Spilker reviewed her favorite thing which is goal setting. We talked about the many areas in our lives that we can set goals. One area may be weaker than another , and so it’s good to look at all and try to balance them out. We made lists of our past accomplishments , short term goals and long term goals. Looking at a goal in the future but seeing it as is, as it has happened and recording this will help to manifest this into your lives. Maggie eloquently guided us through this process while sharing some of her own personal goals and visions. All received cork boards and used various cut out images or looked through magazines to find images that related to them. The images were of what was important to you and what you wanted in your life. It may be an “object” or more of a feeling. For example, if you wanted balance and peace in your life, an image of a beach scene or ocean view may be the image for you. The beautiful boards were the backgrounds to our new goals and visions for our life. This introduction was so helpful to all to get us started to reflect on our lives for the upcoming new year. Thank you Maggie- Goddess of Goal Setting for your expertise. Look to comments for More from Maggie… If you have any questions regarding vision boards, please add to comments as well.


Thank you Debi Lilly again for sharing your gratitude boxes and your beautiful space with us. It was wonderful to sit, sip champagne, share appetizers and socialize while we learned something new. The gratitude boxes are wonderful gifts for teachers, loved ones and friends. What a creative, personal way to share your gratitude with others.


What is your favorite thing?

How does it make you feel?


How did you feel about the night?

What are your goals?

Goddesses, share your comments, suggestions and reflections…

 

 

 

 

 

 

Event: FABULOUS FAVORITE THINGS-GOAL SETTING/VISION BOARD
From: karen pulver
Location: A Perfect Event
3050 N. Lincoln Avenue, Chicago, IL
When: Thu, 11/19/09, 7:00PM

 

Goddesses, come celebrate the past, present and future!

What are your aspirations, dreams, long term goals?

What vision do you have for yourself, your family, those close to you?

What is your true purpose?

Come out for a night of exploration, fun and purpose. You will leave the night with a set concrete plan of action to help achieve your long term goals and visions. We will celebrate together and share our FAVORITE THINGS- that’s right, it’s back. With the huge success of a past favorite things Goddess gathering, we will once again, share our favorite things.

Bring a sample of your personal favorite. This can be a product, item, book, phrase, food item, or plant- the sky is the limit. For those items that can be shared, they will be entered into a raffle along with other fun Goddess items. Join Goddess Maggie Spilker who will guide us through creating long term goals to place on vision boards.  We will have wine, appetizers and more. Cost for this event is $25- or $20 if you bring along an unwrapped toy to be given to Toys For Tots.  See WWW.GRATEFULGODDESSES.COM for past events, upcoming and blog comments posted. Looking  forward to a FABULOUS night!

Ritual and respect were common themes of tonights Goddess Gathering. Thank you to Maureen Riley for guiding us through a beautiful ritual to meet our fears. Through guided meditation, we created our own secret garden’s in our minds and entered into them. They could be whatever our minds wanted them to be. Once inside the garden, we met with our own personal angel who helped guide us. The skeleton represented our fears, or what was hidden inside us. Through Maureen’s guidance, we shared with the skeleton and opened up to a gift. We sealed our meditation with a chant “there is beauty above me, there is beauty all around me.” Everyone has fears; may it be fear of needles, driving, traveling,of not being accepted or of being alone. We all have obstacles to overcome, may it be of succeeding, of dealing with a specific person or life in general. At tonight’s gathering, we felt connected to each other by this common thread. Thank you for coming with an open mind willing to share and experience. Share your comments for how the night was for you. What was your gift? What was your angel’s name? How did you feel before and afterwards? What other suggestions can you offer. Thank you to our Goddess who shared-FEAR- false evidence appearing real.

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Host: Karen Pulver

773 315 1266

Friday October 23

Namaskar Yoga Studio
3946 N Southport
Chicago, IL 60657 US
7:45- 10:00

“The only thing we have to fear is fear itself”- Franklin D Roosevelt

Do you ever feel like there is something stopping you from doing what you want to do? We all have fears of one kind or another. Goddesses, come out for a night of energy healing. Body centered psychotherapist , energy healer and coach Maureen Riley (maureenriley.net  and purelyvital.com) will guide us through a night of mediation and ritual towards overcoming fears, obstacles and living our best life. Bring along a halloween mask or object that represents your fear that you want to release. The object can be a picture, note, rock, or anything that intuitively speaks to you. Bring an open mind and be prepared to have fun and explore. Don’t be afraid to come! We will as usual enjoy light appetizers, wine, door prizes  and good times. Cost of this event is $25.  Bring a first time Goddess friend and pay $15 each. Part of the proceeds will go towards KIVA -(www.kiva.org) an organization that “lets you lend to a specific entrepreneur, empowering them to lift themselves out of poverty.”

Thank you for your BLOG comments. Keep them coming! Go towww.gratefulgoddesses.com and go to BLOG. Click on event COMMENTSand post your questions, comments or suggestions.  Be sure to check out the list of amazing upcoming events. Save the date- November 19 for Favorite Things, Setting Goals at A Perfect Event.

Looking forward to a night of reflection and empowerment. Pass along to other women you think would be interested. BOO! See you there!

“decide that  you want it, more than you are afraid of it”- Bill Cosby

My gift to the Goddesses this new season – GRATITUDE JOURNALS

We start the year off Goddesses with Gratitude journals. Remember to bring your journal to each event where we will have an opportunity to  work on our gratitude exercises. Check back to the blog for activities to help enrich your soul and continue your journey with me. Post your comments and share your discoveries. These activities are a collaboration from various readings I have collected. Each gathering I will present a new activity to the group and we can share and learn together. I welcome your feedback.

ACTIVITY 1 ( Oct 1- ABC’s of Healthy Eating Gathering)

Take a few minutes, to stop, and breath. We all have very busy lives and often find ourselves doing for others. Take this time now to take some time for YOU. Close your eyes if you need to. Now, list one or more reasons for something you are grateful for that happened to you today. It can be big or it can be small. Keep this journal with you , in your car, by your nightstand, in your purse. Turn to it every now and then and continue to write events that you are grateful for and appreciative of. Look to these entries every now and then to remind yourself of how even the little things can mean so much. Today I am grateful for all of you coming here tonight to share, explore and learn along with me!

“Do it now! Today will be yesterday tomorrow.” E.C.Mckenzie

Do you find yourself often saying “tomorrow I’ll eat better.” Well I do. I will have a fabulous healthy eating day and then, later after dinner, have that craving for that cookie calling my name. That one cookie can sometimes turn into one more, then one more and then before you know it….. well you know. Eating healthy is a lifestyle not a diet. Fresh, healthy foods are waiting for us, we just have to make that choice.

Joelle Rabion, health and wellness nutritionist lead a wonderful informative discussion on eating well. The ABC’s of Healthy Eating was the perfect lesson for starting off the school year right. Joelle displayed a variety of glorious greens including kale, collards, swiss chard, bok choy, spinach and more. The health benefits include, cleaning out toxins and fats, purifying the blood, helping to prevent cancer, keeping skin fresh and clearing blemishes along with a multitude of health benefits. Good breakfast choices like muesli, millet, steal cut oatmeal are fabulous ways to start off your day. Many of the Goddesses with children were given ideas for helping to include vegetables into their diets. Shopping the grocery store and first staying on the periphery where all the good stuff is located is a good start . When you work your way in the middle, it will become more processed and it is where as a consumer, you need to be alert to labels. The 5 ingredient rule was a good reminder. If an item has more than 5 ingredients, chances are it isn’t as healthy. Keeping sugar under 10 grams when deciding on food items is also a good key to choosing items. We saw just how confusing it can be when reading labels as the word SUGAR has so many names. We are the advocates for ourselves and our family and so it is important for us to be alert, aware and make good choices for what goes into our body. Keeping food journals, eliminating certain foods for a while then slowly reintroducing them, will also help to pinpoint what foods work well for our bodies by the way we feel after eating them.

After our very thought provoking discussion, the Goddesses with Joelle’s help cooked up a healthy meal of warm quinoa and broccoli salad with carrot-ginger dressing and seaweed sesame salad.  We all walked away with some more yummy recipes including Zucchini Blondies (a great way to give veggies to those reluctant kids.)

Goddess questions  :

“what is the deal with low carb diets?”

“what  is more nutritious, frozen veggies, vs fresh veggies- do petite carrots have any nutritional value?”

“how do you get your kids to eat a larger variety of foods”

“when choosing fish, is it better to choose farm raised or wild?”

“what sugar alternatives are good to use instead of real sugar or splenda, sugar twin etc”

“my kids like pop, what sodas are good, if any?”

“what are good breakfast , snack choices for kids when on the go.”

Look to comments for Joelle’s answers and more.

Thanks to all for your generous donations towards  the Monday Meal. The money raised will go towards the cost of a meal to feed the homeless. As many expressed interest, we will be planning a Goddess Monday Meal soon. We will shop, and make a healthy meal for 50 homeless Chicagoland area people in need ,at Temple Sholom. Look for date to be announced soon

Thank you to Smarty Party for the wonderful space for this event. A special thank you to Joelle Rabion for sharing her wonderful food knowledge with us. Let’s start TODAY  to eat better so we can start off the school year feeling better in our bodies.

Many Goddesses expressed interest to learn more. If you would like to contact Joelle, please do so at joelle@goodfoodbetterlife.com

Host: karen pulver
Location:
Smarty Party
1846 W Belmont
Chicago, IL 60657 US
When: Thursday, October 1, 7:00PM    -10:00
Phone: 773 315 1266

CHANGE OF DATE- THURSDAY OCTOBER 1
Are you ready to go back to school? Goddesses, welcome back to another wonderful year of enriching, enlightening, authentic gatherings. Let’s start the school year off right with the ABC’s of Healthy Eating-Empowerment for your health. Join health and wellness consultant and nutritionist, Goddess Joelle Rabion for a night to learn about good food- better life! (joelle@goodfoodbetterlife.com) Bring along an appetite as we will have a chance to make and taste test the fabulous healthy recipes created. Cost for this event is $25. A portion collected will go towards the Monday Meal Project (feeding the homeless a nutritious meal every Monday night)

Check out the Goddess Blog at: www.gratefulgoddesses.comand click on BLOG.

I would love to hear your questions, responses to past events. You can also see the Goddess schedule for the upcoming year as well as past pictures.

Let’s start a new season with health and wellness. Feel great in your body this fall!

Save the dates:
October 23- Facing Fears and Overcoming Obstacles
November 19- Favorite Things- I’ts Back! Goal Setting/Vision Boards
January 15- Personal Finances- Hoping, Coping and you gotta stop moping!
February 19- Open your Heart with Hart- Discover your inner being.
March 10- Feng Shui- Using Color and the Flow of Energy in your home to manifest your best life.
April-date -TBA- Using creative exploration for positive social change.
May- TBA- Alchemy Jars- Discovering your Intentions.

Please forward this evite to other Goddesses you think would enjoy participating.

Karen

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